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Here's what Taylor Swift has taught us about love


 

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Our two-time cover girl Taylor Swift has shared some valuable love lessons with us throughout the years. Our faves? To put your friends before fellas and take all kinds of compliments.

 

To celebrate Valentine’s Day, we decided to jam out to some of Swifty’s fearless songs for more relationship inspiration. What did we find? Ten lovely lyrics that are always good to keep in mind.

 

Relationships require effort

“This love is difficult, but it's real

Don't be afraid, we'll make it out of this mess”—Love Story

 

Be supportive

“The time is gonna come when you're so mad you could cry

But I'll hold you through the night until you smile”—Jump then Fall

 

Stay true to yourself

“Cause I knew you were trouble when you walked in.

So shame on me now...”—I Knew You Were Trouble

 

Feel free

“I don't know why but with you I'd dance in a storm in my best dress

Fearless”—Fearless

 

Take a chance

“Don't be afraid to

Jump then fall”—Jump then Fall

 

Know when to call it quits

“You go talk to your friends, talk to my friends, talk to me

But we are never ever ever ever getting back together”—We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together

 

Say sorry

“So this is me swallowing my pride

Standing in front of you saying, ‘I'm sorry for that night.’

And I go back to December all the time.

It turns out freedom ain't nothing but missing you,

Wishing I'd realized what I had when you were mine”—Back to December

 

Don’t scheme

“But sophistication isn't what you wear or who you know

Or pushing people down to get you where you wanna go”—Better than Revenge

 

Be flexible

“People are people,

And sometimes we change our minds.”—Breathe

 

Express yourself

“If you only knew me

We could be a beautiful

Miracle,

Unbelievable

Instead of just invisible.”—Invisible

 

What love advice do you take from Taylor’s songs? Share in the comments below.
 
 
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BY CAROLINE CASSARD ON 2/7/2013 12:00:00 AM

POSTED IN entertainment, music, Taylor Swift, music we love, perfect playlists, valentine's day, guys, dating advice

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I really like Taylor but she's always breaking up withs guys and
Going out withs new one I don't think any one should b like that :/

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by Iluvhungergames on 2/11/2013 4:32:03 PM

 
 



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I have a bf now and I'm not aloud to date should I keep it a secret from my mom or break up with the guy????




Maybe you should talk to your mom about it. Try sitting her down and tell her how you feel. I'm sure she will understand. Good luck! 
mailyse f.

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by Iluvhungergames on 2/11/2013 4:30:34 PM

 
 



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Okay so my parents signed me up to volunteer at a nursing home, and, sure I don't mind the old people, but they said if I keep volunteering there and people like me, I could start working there at the age of 16 (which is only 2 years away) and get my CNA, which is Level 1 of becoming a nurse. They want me to be a nurse! I really wanted to be a nurse when I was like 9 but now I don't want to be! I can't let them down though. I'm afraid if I told them I really (really) want to be an actress, they might laugh because if I was them I'd laugh. I can't talk to a guidance councilor about this because I'm homeschooled, and none of my friends would really understand...except one. And I'd like to talk to her alone about it, and I rarley see her, so should I call her? Im worried if I do talk to her she'll tell her parents who will tell my parents. Help!

 

Hey pinklol56, you shouldn't make yourself do something you don't want just because others want you to. It seems like the only reason your parents want you to be a nurse is because they think that's what you want to do and that it will make you happy. If you let them know you've changed your mind, and want to go into acting, they may support you. Just talk to them and see what happens. Hope this helps! Xoxo Smile 


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by pinklol56 on 2/8/2013 4:16:04 PM

 
 



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I have a great idea for decorating a room - is there a way I can send it to GL?

 

Hey Lady Grey, I'm not exactly sure. I don't think we are taking room design submissions. But hey you never know. Something could pop up. Hope this helps! Xoxo Smile  


Lynae P.

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by Lady Grey on 2/8/2013 2:28:11 PM

 
 

T Swift rocks!!

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by orlandobloomrocks on 2/7/2013 8:33:36 PM

 
 



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So I have a complicated life with my crush. I've liked him for about a year now. The complications are:
1. He's as close to blood relative as you can get without being one.
2.He has a girlfriend.
3.I'm really shy around him.
So I really want to know how to make it less awkward/complicated between us. It doesn't even have to be asking him out?

 

hey! all you have to do is approach him as you would a friend. How do you talk to your friends? what do you guys talk about? just be yourself, and maybe ask him like what movies he like or what music. just see what things y'all have to talk about in common Smile 


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by -strawberry13 on 2/7/2013 8:14:57 PM

 
 

The main love advice I take from Taylor Swift's songs is to not let other people get in the way of your relationship.

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by supersingershannon on 2/7/2013 7:29:57 PM

 
 

@the_girl_in_goal ikr hahahhahaha thats HILARIOUS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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by nazirah817 on 2/7/2013 7:16:33 PM

 
 

First of all, Taylor Swift is my all time favorite singer and I LOVE all of her music..so I'm not saying this to be mean at all. But honestly, Taylor is not the best role model in terms of relationships. She treats dating like a hobby and sometimes it seems like she only goes out with guys to create new material for her songs (although I know that's not true). I also find it impressive that so many guys have had the guts to date her knowing that they have a one in a million chance of being in a lasting relationship with her and that she is going to publicize the break up and broadcast all of their flaws through a song.
Again I love her songs but it would be refreshing to hear the guys she's gone out with sides of the story sometimes.
I suppose there are some lessons to learn from her though..since nothing has worked out for her I guess just do the opposite :p

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by maggie183 on 2/7/2013 7:15:57 PM

 
 

I write songs about my breakups, loves, and my life. Just like Taylor Swift. Everyone thinks that I will be the next Taylor and I have to agree. Its my dream. I am about to start recording but I need help with exposure. I already have promises of recording. Any ideas for getting exposure please?!? Thanks!

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by JellyBeanChick on 2/7/2013 6:56:35 PM

 
 

I hardly feel that Taylor Swift is a good role model for love and relationships. She's had, what, twenty something boyfriends since she's been famous, and all of the relationships ended poorly. MAYBE she DOES have bad luck, but after boyfriend fifteen I kinda started to doubt it.

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by christi11 on 2/7/2013 6:55:27 PM

 
 

She taught me to write a song about my ex.

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by the_girl_in_goal on 2/7/2013 6:43:41 PM

 
 

Do you like rock and roll music of any era?If so, then join my club "Rock music that rocks"...We will talk about anything, from 70's-modern rock! We have rock trivia, and we share our favorite bands! You can find the club by going to my profile page, and clicking on the club with the awesome electric guitar pic!

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by rockchik333 on 2/7/2013 6:17:02 PM

 
 



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Ok so my crush told me he likes my friend and I was a bit upset but cool with it now one day later he's acting like he likes me! I'm so confused is he tryin to make me jealous? I have no idea what's going on please help

 

Hey! it's common for guys and girls to have more than one crush, so from this it sounds to me like maybe he likes both of you? 


Helen S.

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by Luvblack216 on 2/7/2013 5:47:56 PM

 
 

Love taylor swift!!!!!

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by hardwoodqueen on 2/7/2013 4:59:38 PM

 
 


Taylor swift taught me to go after what I believe in and to always believe in love and sometimes it's just not meant to be I love taylor swift she is my favorite singer of all time I love all if her songs she is my idol Hannah H.

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by Juliacar on 2/7/2013 4:34:20 PM

 
 

I love almost all of her songs, but my favorite lyrics that were quoted in this article would definitely be the ones from "Fearless" and "Invisible". <3

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by purplerainn on 2/7/2013 4:26:49 PM

 
 

She has taught me how easy it is to hang out, date and want to have a relationship with a number of men and guys. Seriously though she goes for the best and doesnt care about age, they could be older or younger. Which means she has a lot of material for her new songs. We all wish we could be her.

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by fashionqn on 2/7/2013 1:50:54 PM

 
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