Breakups are never fun, but you will survive, trust. Dealing with any breakup can be stressful, hurtful and cause you to feel absolutely sick. Here’s some advice on how to help mend your broken heart.
Talk to your mamma
When you and your BF split the first person you should talk
to is your mom. Not only has she
experienced everything you are currently feeling once before, she knows you
better than anyone and will do her best to give you all of the love you need. Mom will be there for when you need to vent
and cry and will do her best to bring a smile to your face.
GNO “Girl’s Night Out”
Spending as little time alone is key to getting over a breakup. Make sure to chill with your BFF’s as much as
possible. Have sleepovers, paint each
other’s nails, watch your fave movies and make cupcakes. Down time with the BFF’s is always the best
Eat your feelings….to an extent.
So when we say eat your feelings we don’t mean sitting in
bed all day and night eating a box of chocolates. That’s so cliché. Instead, treat
yourself for the night for being strong by eating that piece of chocolate cake
that you would usually say no to. But be
sure to maintain a healthy diet during a breakup because too many sugars can
wreck your mood.
Go on a run
Even though you may not love to go on runs, working out is
super beneficial for your state of mind. If you become a couch potato when you’re feeling down, your mood won’t
change. By going on a power walk or a
run, you will be pushing yourself to accomplish a certain goal, which will help
clear your mind.
Now is a great time to pick up a new hobby, especially one
that gives you an outlet to express yourself. Try a new art project or pick up a notebook to start journaling. Making lists is always helpful. Why not five
reasons why this break up is good for you? Fish for positive aspects about a
negative situation and you will def grow stronger.
OK so we don’t mean you have to delete him from Facebook,
Twitter, Instagram and your cell. But he
should def not be constantly on the top of your Newsfeed. Make sure to erase any old text messages that
you may continuously read over. While you’re at it, change your settings to make
him a lower priority on social media.
Don’t be visibly upset near him
It is totes OK to cry to your fam, your friends and even
alone because it will help let off some steam. But just be sure to NOT cry in front of your ex. If you are trying to win him back, that will
only drive him further away because boys don’t do well with tears. Instead, when you pass him in the hall, take
a deep breath and hold your head up high. He’ll already think you’ve moved on.
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BY ELIZABETH KUNTZ ON 7/14/2013 12:00:00 AM
POSTED IN guys, dating advice, GL's best guy advice, dealing with a breakup, ex boyfriend Q & A, how to move on