My BF's Getting Attention...From Other Girls!

OK now I’m not usually the jealous type but right now I am VERY jealous! Me and my boyfriend have been together since New Years Eve and it has all been good so far. But now he is always talking to girls that like him and making plans with them.

Like this one girl who is my enemy (lets call her Emma), well Emma is always making plans with him like, lets go running today after school, or lets go to the movies and see a scary movie (he loves scary movies and I hate them so she knows that that will make him like her). I LOVE my boyfriend and he says he LOVES, and I mean really LOVES me, but sometimes I have a hard time believing that. I even shared my first kiss with him and I really don’t want are relationship to end. Please help!

Dear Hayley,

Sometimes having the green-eyed monster on your shoulder is a good thing. It sounds like your mind is alerting you to some shady behavior. Of course its fine for girls and guys to just hang out, some of my best friends are guys!

However, there is a difference between just hangin' and trying to form a love connection. If you feel like all the girly attention towards your guy doesn't have a "just friends" kind of vibe, chances are you're right. Being jogging partners is one thing, going on a movie date is completely different.

Be honest about how you feel. It is unfair of you to tell him that you don't want him to hang out with his gal pals, but make sure you tell him that sometimes his behavior with them makes you uncomfortable. Its hard to share people you love, it may help to get to know his girl friends, that way you can all hang out. You owe it to yourself to be happy, don't sit back and let your boyfriend shrug off your feelings.

Hang in there!
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3/16/2009 7:00:00 AM