Dear Carol

Dear Carol, My BF is pressuring me for sex

Dear Carol,
My boyfriend is pressuring me to have sex, and I don't want to. Help.
–Pressured by BF

Dear Pressured by BF,
Tell him you don't like feeling pressured and that it's not fun when every hug or kiss turns into a tug of war. Have this talk when you're taking a walk (rather than, say, being cozy on the couch). Tell him in a clear, assertive way that you like him, but don't plan to have sex for years. If this is a problem, set eachother free.

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by Dear Carol | 8/17/2018
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