Dear Carol

"Dear Carol, is being academically competitive with my BFF bad?"

Dear Carol, 

I get pretty competitive with my BFF in school. Is that bad?

- Competitive

Dear Competitive,

It's bad if it's hurting your friendship. It's fine if it's motivating you (or the two of you) to do your best in class, sports or extracurrics. There's room at the top for both of you. 

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by GL | 3/19/2022