I have a bigger chest than most people my age and it bothers me. Everyone tells me it's a blessing but I hate it. I feel like guys are only interested in me because of my boobs. 

I've tried to wear different shirts but you can obviously tell they are still there! What should I do? 

Hey hon, everyone always thinks the grass is greener on the other side. My sister has a bigger chest than me and she totally feels the same way as you. Since you can't get rid of your boobs, you might as well learn to work with what you've got.

My sister says a supportive bra is crucial. Most girls are wearing the wrong size, so take a trip to Victoria' Secret to get a professional fitting. You could also ask about minimizer bras, too. One of my friends with a bigger chest recommended shopping for shirts with a straight neckline and staying away from tops with buttons down the front.

As you may already know, some shirts do a better job of hiding your pair than others. Obvi, you'd want to avoid low-cut tops and shirts that are really tight as they draw more attention to your chest. You could also try wearing fuller skirts or eye-catching accessories to distract from your chest. Accentuate other parts of your body you do like, such as your eyes, hair or legs.

The secret to confidence is developing your own style that is comfortable to you. Most importantly, don't stress yourself about the size of your chest. You're a great girl and the right guy will be able to look beyond your breasts and appreciate you for the wonderful person you are, babe.

2/7/2010 7:00:00 AM